It's Because You Love Her <3

When you love someone, you have to be honest with the person so as respecting her just as much as you love her. Before allowing this person to enter your life, you should be aware that she can be dominating you, your routines, your own wants, especially your feelings. Before allowing this person to become a part of YOU, you should also think a hundred times, if you are or not willing to take risks of getting hurt.. because feeling pain is never absent once you learn to love a certain person.

Once you consider her a part of your life, you have to stand up for it.. NOT only because you have to, but because you want it that way. When a particular time comes that you learn to love a person, expect it to be a package.. that you also learn to endure pain, to forgive no matter how difficult it is, to understand everytime you lose your own self, to not hurt her even if you feel terrible, to understand yourself why you could never get mad when you should be.. AND learning to follow yourself and disregard others’ opinions as if you don’t hear anything. You’ll learn how to pretend as if everything’s okay even if deep inside you aren’t, you learn to handle things even if all of those can break you down.. SIMPLY ALL because, YOU LOVE HER :

Everytime you get hurt, by her, never seek revenge as an option just so you’d feel better or just so she’d feel the same way you felt it when she did you wrong.. IT’D BE WORST. Just take it as it is, comfort your own self, cry if you want to, scream if you please.. So in the end, she can’t blame you anything AND because you don’t want to throw back her mistakes to her face.. because YOU LOVE HER.

Everytime you get hurt, by things, just for example how her use of words causes great impact on you.. still, NO revenge. Take everything as a compliment! Take everything positively.. mellow down and NEVER tell her things just the same so she’d also be hurt and then you feel better.. SO WRONG. No matter what she tells you, don’t let it break you down, there are strong tendencies of crying it all out *that’s good*.. but never hurt her likewise. WORDS do have a great impact, especially if these came from someone very special to you.. you can smile your heart out, or cry yourself lose. NO MATTER WHAT, don’t do or say anything that could hurt her. EVEN IF you feel pain a hundred times, keep it to yourself.. Never think of doing the same as she did.. because YOU LOVE HER.

Before letting this person be a part of YOU, you are aware that you can be hurt a lot of times, can cry a million tears and that she can leave you out there ANYTIME. Loving this person in the first place without assurance is really difficult and mind-boggling.. but you love her, so you often opt to still GO FOR IT even if you currently see great and clear possibilities to be left alone in the end. Even if this person, you know, can leave you hanging anytime; if you really love her, you’ve got to learn to endure pain, SO MUCH of it. You even unconcsiously lose your pride and learn to give a big part of you and unnoticeably see yourself STILL wanting her to be in your life.. The life that seems so different long way before you allowed her to be a part of it. BUT you cannot deny, that you are willing to pull her back.. because YOU STILL WANT HER IN YOUR LIFE.. because YOU LOVE HER.

If you love her SO MUCH, you’d be willing to do anything and everything just so she’d stay with you, regardless of every hardship you felt, you currently feel, and will be feeling.. regardless of every grievous stuff she told you, regardless of every little thing that hurt you.. YOU can never blame her for those, because in the first place, it was YOUR CHOICE.. It was you yourself who opted to STAY, HOLD-ON, and NOT TO LET GO, even if you experience the most heart-breaking situations, self-losing arguments and stupidity.. that despite of pushing yourself too hard and forgetting pride as well….

..YOU STILL WANT HER TO BE YOURS, the both of you TOGETHER, and knowing that you’re hers and she’s yours, AND YOURS ALONE.

*Respect. Trust. Loyalty. Faithfulness. Your true self. LOVE&&TOTAL COMMITMENT.*

And finally, if you really love the person, you should never take thoughts of getting hurt and feeling pain as a hindrance of not following what you really want.. to GO FOR IT.

If you really love the person, you would accept and just take ALL risks.. even if you know you can be left hanging anytime, or get hurt everytime.. even if it means breaking your heart and losing yourself in the first place.. GO FOR IT.

However..
..before deciding in the first place, you also have to learn how you’d be handling things in their proper places and that you’d still leave a part of you for yourself.. so that if in case you’ll be left anytime unexpectedly, you’ll still know how to cope up with the words GETTING OVER, LETTING GO and MOVING ON.